How Can You Turn a Dating App Match into an Actual Date?

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Dating apps can be tricky. Matching with someone might not necessarily lead to an actual date, particularly if you decide to just wait for the other person to ask you out. Who should be the one to initiate the date? How can you ensure that in-person conversation will be as charming as texting? Is it possible to avoid awkwardness?

The truth is it is hard to say when is the best time to ask someone you have only known through a dating app, but if you do not try, you will never know. To give yourself a higher chance of success, you can start with trying to find some common ground, something that you are both interested in, such as watching movies or Mexican cuisine. You can also try to be honest with your match and stop hiding the fact that you actually want to go on a date. After all, they cannot read your mind. 

Turning your dating app match into a real-life date is not impossible, but it may require quite a lot of effort. Here is how you can go about doing it.

Do Not Be Afraid of Being Honest

If you want to go out on a date with a person that you have never met in real life only on an online dating site, it is important that you are open about your feelings. Be honest and tell your match that you want to go on a date with them. You might get rejected, but rejection is part of life and dating. Besides, it will definitely help you avoid being stuck in a sort of limbo where you are waiting for something that is not going to happen.

If you are afraid of being honest, think about how useful it can be in other scenarios. For example, if you are in the middle of ending a marriage and looking for a partner online, you should not hide the fact that you need to prepare for a divorce from the people that you are talking to. It is just something important that the other person would probably appreciate knowing.

Ask Them If They Want to Go Out for Dinner

You can simply ask your match if they would like to meet up for a coffee at a coffee shop, or if they would be interested in going out for dinner. However, keep in mind that some people are not particularly fond of declining such offers and may agree to go out with you while having no interest in doing so. In the end, such a person might cancel the meeting at the last minute. 

So, you might want to consider asking them if they would like to do something that interests them instead. Asking for such a suggestion will help you to determine whether or not the person that you are talking to really likes you and if that person would genuinely like to go out with you.

Do Something That You Will Both Like 

If you are interested in meeting a dating match in person, look for something that both of you will enjoy doing. For example, if you both like going to the movies, you can suggest a movie night together. Do you both like going out for dinner? Why not try planning a dinner date? If you both enjoy hiking, why not go on a hike together? 

You can also choose an activity that you might not necessarily enjoy but that your match might want to do. If you end up deciding to go on a second date, you can go about it the other way around and choose an activity that you like instead.

Give Sincere Compliments

Giving a dating match a sincere compliment is a great way to turn that match into an actual date. Tell the person that you are texting that you are enjoying the conversation, like the way they look and their sense of humour and would like to meet in person. A few sincere compliments will make your match feel good, making them more likely to agree to go out with you.

In Conclusion

If you are single but still hoping to find someone who will change your life, try not to lose hope and understand that dating apps can help you quite a bit. Such an app allows you to meet interesting people who share your interests and passions. You just need to remember how to turn your matches into real dates.

For starters, remember to be polite and respectful and do not be afraid to drop some hints about what your expectations are. You might end up finding your soulmate or just someone to have a good time with. Either way, it is important that you do not give up if things do not always turn out the way you want them to. Good luck!